One of the things I consistently deal with when meeting
clients, is merging being authentic with the need to conform. Of course your
profession can dictate a certain amount of conformity, allowing for little self
expression in the work place. And although there isn't a lot you can do about
the dress code requirements in the work place, I am a firm believer in
expressing yourself in your dress. You convey who you are and make lasting
impressions with your attire. This is why I encourage authenticity first and
foremost in all you do, including in something that may seem as trivial as your
dress.
People highly
underestimate the impact your image plays in everything from your personal to
professional life, and everywhere in between. Careers can stay stagnant and relationships
can be hindered, all because you fail to convey the right message with your
appearance.
Not only does your appearance influence the way others
interact with you, but it can also have an impact on your psyche. When you wear
something you are comfortable in, you stand taller and feel better, among other
things. Really! It's proven. Who of us hasn't worn something solely because it
was trendy or what everyone in your circle is wearing, but felt uncomfortable
the whole time. People sense that you
are uncomfortable and that can translate to lack of confidence. Certainly not
the image anyone wants to convey!
All that being said, people are naturally drawn to
authenticity and confidence. So, if you feel
you may be not be conveying those traits, take a look at your
clothes.
